EBN- After her child goes out into the outside world or when he starts playing with other children, even if it is in the home environment, the mother discovers that her kid is being assaulted by beating or verbally by other children and that he does not know how to defend himself.
Children often fight with each other out of jealousy, for example, and they fight for various reasons, such as fighting over toys and competition. The assault by beating sometimes goes beyond causing severe harm.
The child being assaulted by others causes psychological problems for him and these problems affect his personality in the future especially at school, where he may be exposed to verbal and physical assault from friends and schoolmates, for example, through several methods and advice in the following:
●Train him to refuse aggression.
Train your kid to protect his body from being touched by anyone who intends to harm him, such as hitting him, tearing his clothes, or hurting him with any sharp object, for example, which causes him wounds and scratches. Training in protecting the body is for the mother to train her child to use his facial expressions to repel an attack on him and to make the person opposite him feel his strength.
●Stop busing your child
Avoid abusing your child and stop monitoring his mistakes, because a child who is exposed to violence at home is a child with a weak personality and it is easy for other children to hit him at school, the neighborhood or the club. Excessive punishment of the child leads the child to expect that anyone outside the home has the right to punish him and the child turns into a person who is afraid of loud voices directed at him, even though the one who raises his voice at him does not have the right to do so.
●Boost his self-confidence
Strengthen your child’s self-confidence from an early age. There are ways to strengthen your child’s self-confidence that you should treat him with before he goes out into the world. Strengthen his self-confidence by encouraging him, patting him on the shoulder, and stroking his head.
■Combine him with children of the same age.
Be sure your kid is integrated with children of the same age and that the friends are not always older than him, because the child being with friends who are older than him will lead, no matter what precautions you take, to him being influenced by them and being the weak link between them, which affects his personality. The way older children deal with younger children is not without hitting and kicking, even if it is to show strength, and you should not expose your child to such situations.
